Thanks everybody

I would like to thank everyone who has posted a comment and assure you as well that I am not angry or anything like that, it is just that life is unfair . ...
We don't always get what we want, I remember the first time I had a fight with my husband and packed up my bags and gone to my parents, my father gave me till 6 p.m and then called me into the sitting room to be on our own, and said to me : I only have one question for you, so I said ok dad go ahead I am listening. His question was : The man you married, who's choice was it ? Of course I replied that it was my choice, so he said : I have nothing more to add, except to tell you that you just have to take your bags and go back to your house and sort it out there.
I sat there with my mouth hanging open , and my dad just opened the door to the sitting room and went out, I of course went straight to my mother in the kitchen and started crying that parents are supposed to stand by their daughter, and that my husband will never respect me because my parents did not give him hell, blah blah on and on until I finally understood that I am better off by going back to my house and ranting at my husband and not speak to him for about 2 weeks and then life just went back to normal. Since then I learned to never complain to my parents because they just weren't going to be involved. Now many years and 2 children later and being away from my country and parents, I am thinking that my dad is actually the greatest and my mother too of course, for not actually getting involved and letting us sort it out.
Amazingly enough my husband thinks that my parents are the greatest because they never got involved in our squirmishes, like so many of his friends who have to deal with the wife and her parents too, anyway to cut a story short, we all make choices and no matter how bad sometimes things are , I personally would never think of exchanging my life with someone else, I am just happy that I am alive and well and that things do happen and we can't always understand nor expect everybody else to understand, so if I was a bit on the flip side , please forgive me and I do apologise.
Now, I would love to post some photos, we have beautiful scenery here, but I have come to realise like my singing that I wasn't the best at photo taking which actually makes me want to take some classes ( whenever I have the time ) , In this life you are either artistic or not, so obviously I am not . I can describe what I see from my office window or the view from our appartment building, but of course it is not the same, all I can say is that everywhere you look the blinding glare of the sun on the white snow is unbelievable, the cold is cold, the air has a knife-like feel to it, the crunch sound under the tires or your shoes is just like crunch !
I am very excited about Shahrazad's cooking blog, I personally am a very good cook but I always like to learn new stuff, I would like Shahrazad to post a recipe for Fasouliah (Beans) the Libyan way, Macaroona Mbakbaka, Chicken Tajine with vegetables and Reshta.
I do miss Libya, the sounds and smells of the Souk Al Turk, all the weddings, baby sboua's, the Lama for no reason, the Eid get together, the Friday Zarda everything except my mother in law and her daughters, there I said it .. It is really amazing how much I abhore them , and if I start ranting about them it is a never ending story so I better not, just mentioning them started my blood boiling and like Music Lover said it is not worth getting all worked up and ending with an ulcer when the world is actually going on with or without me.
Life isn't always as we want it , but we should make the best of what we have.